Hope you get it sorted out.
I am, now, in search of a new IPTV program. TPTB took down our BEST one. 
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And it seems that @Sortskjegg is still sleeping, heh. 
Another friday without Humble leftovers. Oh well, I can wait another month.
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poor Cat jajajaj
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thats so creepy and yet hilarious xD
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I really dont understand people.
After 6 years of relationship my girlfriend decided out of the blue that she doesnt love me anymore and she does not want to continue our relationship.
6 years down the gutter.
I really dont understand people 
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That really sucks. Been there myself, twice. While it might be hard to do so right now, donât let the âdown the gutterâ idea fester too deeply. Remember that the good times were good and a good time is never a wasted time.
Take care of yourself and I hope things goes well for you.
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Better late than later.
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@Fraggles Thank you for your kind words. I also have been there/here but not after such a long time⌠it adds that extra layer of pain i guess.
@SeekerSupreme YeâŚThat is true, but reality now stings and you cant help and think that maybe you would choose even later âŚ
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Donât think of it as 6 years down the gutter. You presumably had a good time with her those years, that doesnât just disappear just because a relationship ends.
Love fades, thatâs natural. This sort of stuff tends to brew for a while, even if shame and hope prevent the person from expressing that. I think itâs good that she decided to make her feelings known now rather than wait until the one-sided lack of love grew into resentment. I hope you two can stay on good terms.
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Thank you for your thoughts @eishiya . I wish to reach this mindset you are describing . Though for now it is very foggy in my head and i canât find any sense of clarityâŚ
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Sorry, hon. 
I know itâs hard and only time will heal. If you need to talk that is what this thread is forâŚ
Be strong. One door closes; another opensâŚ
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No sage advice from 
. Had one relationship that broke me thereafter. So for me in sloth @DontBeSilly Really sorry youâre hurting.
When you can think clearly, lessons you"ve learned will come to you. Nothing is life is wasted, even if it wasnât optimal or perfect. Guess thatâs why they say live and learn.
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6 years in sloth years is like 600 years though, sorry to hear bout that brother. It happens to the best of us. 
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Oof, that really sucks, sorry to hear. Everyoneâs advice is good and of course itâs going to hurt for a while. and hopefully down the line you will still see the positives of the last few years and benefit from all of the experiences as well.
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@delenn13 Thank you. I know that time will âhealâ i guess . But iâm afraid to be left too numb after the healing is done.
@Danacscott I think no kind of sage advice is really needed or available for something like this. A lot of people are telling me a lot of good and sweet things but im in a bad place right now and everything just seem to bounce awayâŚ
@Enki Hah! Thank you for cracking a smile out of me:slight_smile:
@YQMaoski Maybe i will⌠but as i mentioned in a replay to Del i have this feeling of utter disappointment and exhaustion ⌠not physicial , though i can barely sleep or eat lately , but psychological .
Guys,thank you . I really appreciate your thoughts and time you take away from your day to write something encouraging to me.
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@DontBeSilly - This is just an idea, if youâd like to try it:
With a pencil and paper, write down a list of things in your life that you are grateful for, that make you happy, that make you smile. Things like a family member, sunshine, kind actions, a friend, a favorite game, an inspiring book, bird song, a pet, anything that comes to mind.
Each morning, review the list, perhaps add to it, and pick one or two things to dwell on until it warms your thought. There can be so many things in our lives that contribute to our happiness, and dwelling on them is an important step to enjoying life.
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That is a beautiful thought @markwr . I dont feel like itâs a thing for me but iâm greatful nevertheless.
That said maybe i need to open myself for some things i wouldnt have normally considered doing.
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to all the Canadians 
